Anyone who is caught in the middle of this has no concern whatsoever to update an internet forum on their status. I know some of you are close personal friends with guys out there but just try to have hope until you know otherwise. They could be struggling to feed, clothe and defend their families or they could be safe in another state - just hope for the best.
Thousands are dead and many many more have nothing. Pick an avenue to donate and donate. Thats the best you can do right now.